But actually, it is not a good strategy to measure each other’s contribution especially on a day-to-day basis. There may be situations when your husband is excessively absorbed in the working life that he doesn’t have a chance to perform household work & then you have to pitch in more work.
Everyone is expert in performing some or the other tasks & you should also prepare a realistic spreadsheet to divide those tasks. But you should never forget to accept a balance between your working life & household duties to make your married life unbeatable.
(10) Marriage Will Make Your In-Laws Enemies
It is one of the worst marriage myths or mistakes that exist in the mind of a number of newly wedded couples. You like your husband very much due to intimate bonding.
Similarly, your in-laws love your husband that they never want to see their son in any form of major or minor troubles. You should never compete with your husband’s parents in caring & providing all sorts of comfort to your husband.
For example, if your mother in-law always brings a hot dish over to your house then never consider that she might be thinking that you can’t cook well therefore she is bringing a dish for her son. But you should understand that she is also helping you in cooking meals for your husband.
If you start believing that you will clash with your husband’s parents on someday then you are most likely to do that even without any major issues.
You should try to understand the nature of your in-laws, love them as parents & never consider them as enemy.
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